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OCD, I find, is the most closely related to the tics of Tourette Syndrome. I have often
referred to my
obsessions and compulsions as tics of the mind. My body tics and
my mind tics as it gets "stuck" on thoughts and ideas. An obsession is a thought
that your mind gets stuck on which causes great anxiety. A compulsion is what
you have to do to alleviate the
anxiety of an obsession. For example, one of the
most common obsessions that we hear about is a germ obsession. A person has a
fear of germs and contamination, most often irrational. In order to alleviate
this obsession, this person must wash. They may wash their hands over and over
again, take very long, very frequent showers, clean their houses and belongings
continually.
As a French teacher, I travel to Europe each summer with my students. On my
most recent trip, I had with me a 13-year-old boy who suffers from OCD. He is
obsessed with germs. One day, he had to go to the bathroom very badly, but just
could not go because there was no soap in the public bathroom. The only way that
I got him to use the facilities was to give him some moist towelettes that I had
with me to disinfect his hands after he had used the bathroom.
Although germ obsessions are the ones we hear about the most, OCD can takes
literally hundreds of other forms. A person can become obsessed with counting
things over and over again. With OCD, there is always the doubt that you did
something right the first time, so you must do it repeatedly, just to be sure. I
once met a young girl who developed a counting obsession which took the form of
counting every word in every line the she read or wrote. She was a sophomore in
high school and was soon failing everything. The more anxious she became, the
worse the compulsion was. Everything she attempted to read or write took hours
and hours. Until the obsession subsided, it became necessary to provide her with
a note taker and books on tape to allow her to be able to finish her work.
When I was 7 years old, I began a compulsion which caused me to read five
words in my reader and then in my head count to 25 before I could go on to the
next word. I was moved from the top reading group to several groups below
because the teacher assumed that I simply did not know the next word. When I
tell that story today, people inevitably ask me why I didn't simply tell the
teacher what was going on in my head. There are two reasons why kids don't tell.
First of all, you have nothing to compare it to. How did I know that other kids
weren't doing the same thing in their head? Secondly, the biggest fear is that
everyone will think that you're crazy. You feel crazy doing these ridiculous
things over and over again.
An obsession could take the form of
checking things over and over again.
You're never quite sure that you did it right the first time. I would check the
stove, the coffee pot, the iron, the thermostat, eight and nine times before I
could get out of my house in the morning. Symmetry is a very common obsession.
The blinds must be perfect, the bedspread without a wrinkle. Sometimes the
silliest things can become an obsession. I became obsessed with the milk carton
being perfectly straight on the refrigerator shelf. One morning I went back 8
times to straighten the milk carton. Feeling that I would never be able to get
out of my house, I decided to take the milk to work with me. What is perceived
as perfectionism is almost always a red flag for OCD-- kids who erase over and
over again, kids who asked repeated questions. People with OCD don't transition
well. They may appear to be stubborn, but may just be having a difficult time
moving on to a new activity.
Whether you're dealing with tics, obsessions or symptoms of
ADHD, I reiterate
that the key word is creativity. First you must accept that this is not a child
misbehaving or purposely trying to aggravate you, this is merely a neurological
disorder over which the child has very little control. I once worked with a boy
whose obsession was to always have a perfectly sharpened pencil. He would
interrupt the class 16 or 17 times every class period to re-sharpen his pencil.
The solution was quite simple. We gave him 20 sharpened pencils at the beginning
of every class. Two weeks later, the boy himself came up with an even better
solution. He bought a mechanical pencil. Of course, it's not always that easy,
but as an educator you must always be creative and keep an open mind.
Susan A. Conners has taught French for 33 years in the
Williamsville Schools, Williamsville, NY. President, Founder and Educational
Advocate of the Tourette Syndrome Association of Western NY since 1984, she
served on the Board of Directors of the National Tourette Syndrome Association
for 12 years. She has presented hundreds of workshops throughout the US, Canada
and Norway on the education of children with TS and has won numerous awards for
her work with children with TS. She recently retired from full time teaching and
accepted a position as Education Specialist for National TSA, Inc.
For more information, contact the National Tourette Syndrome Association
at (718) 224-2999 or visit their website at www.tsa-usa.org.
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